December 15, 2017
From Breakdown to Breakthrough: Gaining Control and Perspective
There is a force controlling you, com
pelling you to make choices that go against your instincts. Pornography can be a force that has catastrophic consequences.
A breakdown based on i...
December 8, 2017
The Conversation: EmpowHER© To Use Their Voice.
I am wanting, willing and empowered to enter into the dialogue women are facing all over the world regarding sexual abuse, sexual trauma, sexual assault and sexual harassment. There is zero tolerance.
Today at this presen...
December 2, 2017
Coping With Difficult Therapeutic Sessions
Opening up in session can be painful as past issues come to the surface. Sometimes it can feel as if you're back at that time, reliving the pain and it can leave a person feeling very exposed and vulnerable. Sometimes people d...
November 21, 2017
Gratitude and Intimacy
With the holidays soon upon us, it’s that annual time we reflect on all the things we’re thankful for. Family, friends, food, an the opportunity to find gratitude in your intimate connection with your partner… But of course among these things is o...
November 16, 2017
An Automatously Driven Companionship (Yes I am aware it's a mouth full!)
It is not my traditional blog to go with out talking about the latest sexual concern nor is my attempt to mesmerize you with philosophical “New Agey” jargon. However, the latest experiences I hav...
November 4, 2017
The After Play and the After Glow
So often times in sessions couples start talking about sexual intimacy issues or concerns. More cases than not we gravitate towards the foreplay, preparation, communication patterns and the sexual act itself when looking for the potenti...
October 26, 2017
Creating a Relapse Trigger Inventory
Multiple situations can “trigger” a craving or urge to relapse into acting. This can be sexually acting out, unfaithfully or through the Internet. The topic today is all about riding the “craving wave” and exploring your relapse tr...
October 16, 2017
Discovering Desire
I am a solution focused sex and relationship expert, and often times I am simply someone that wants to help couples find their spark! Today we live in a hectic culture that puts taking the right photo of the experience above living the experience....
October 7, 2017
Being Proactive Honesty: Understanding the Value of 168!
We all have been there… You just wanted to check your email, that’s it and 2 hours later all you found was the black hole of the Internet. Over the course of a normal week a teenager spends up to 27 hours a...
September 22, 2017
Fall Equinox
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The daylight and evening is equal in time.
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Reflects a movement into the northern hemisphere transitioning to winter. (Great time for Hibernating! Or Sexperiments!
Symbiotic
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Involving interaction between two different organisms living in close...