

Just When You Thought You Knew Them...
It's not just about sex and candy... The Continuum of Pride and Humility. I am a sex therapist. I specialize in people learning to live...
Facing the Craving Ledge
Craving Awareness Skills It is unrealistic to think you will no longer have cravings to pornography or sex, let alone think the...
Weekend Sexperiment: Let the Fireworks Begin!
Creating the fireworks: Making Intimacy Sexy As a sex therapist that works with clients struggling with their relationships as well as...


Finding the Alternative: Addressing the Emotions
When you are struggling with an addiction to pornography or any addiction it is often because you are afraid to look at the underlying...
Kid's Are Curious Too!
Kids continue to use porn for many different reasons It is the classic story of a young boy playing in the garage and stumbling upon a...


5 tips to help you integrate
Much of my therapeutic practice has a great deal to do with how clients integrate their therapy session. In my mind it is more...
Breaking Invisible Loyalty: Training the Brain
How valuable is pornography to the brain? When people come into my office, one of the hidden components to the struggle with...


Don't Run Away From Being Emotionally Intelligent
Steps with Coping with Feelings So what do you do when you start to feel? When you are actively using and avoiding dealing with an...
Get Out of Your Head and Into Your Bed!
Healing Souls Sexperiment: Get Out of Your Head and Into Your Bed! The body is built for pleasure. We are wired with sensory nerves: big...
Spring Ahead: Advancing Your Sexual Intimacy
Spring Ahead! Advanced Sexual Intimacy. All to often client’s come into the office with the burning concern I like to call “Sexual...