May 8, 2018
Being out of control in our sex lives or with pornography can lead to major problems. An inability to refrain from connecting outside of the “addicts” person can be a significant issue in overcoming the sexual / pornography addiction epidemic.
Two of the questions I a...
December 15, 2017
From Breakdown to Breakthrough: Gaining Control and Perspective
There is a force controlling you, com
pelling you to make choices that go against your instincts. Pornography can be a force that has catastrophic consequences.
A breakdown based on i...
December 20, 2016
What happens when a person has an ongoing relationship with pornography addiction? They continue to go down a road with a blindfold on. The true problem is pornography can lead to overwhelming feelings of desperation. Specifically, what the ritual of long-term porn...
October 20, 2016
When meeting clients who are struggling with porn addiction, we go through a series of initial questions: Do you enjoy watching porn? How important is watching porn? One of the most important questions I ask of the client is: Do you want to quit watching porn? You...
August 25, 2016
One of the fundamental questions that clients ask me is: do you think I have a pornography addiction? We will talk and process different ideas and thoughts around pornography, sometimes only to find out that shame can get in the way of their turn answers. I have devi...